Overcoming Anxiety & Fear- Part 3

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Sometimes, following God’s path leads you right through some fear-inducing situations. Whether the danger is physical, financial, emotional or anything else, fear can paralyze you, keeping you from doing what God commands. If you want to follow Jesus effectively, you need courage! 

1. Read

Joshua 1:9 [NLT]  “This is my command—be strong and courageous! Do not be afraid or discouraged. For the Lord your God is with you wherever you go.”
Joshua had very real fears in multiple areas – fear of injury, fear of failure, and fear of rejection. God’s command was to rise up and step forward, right into the danger, because He was with Joshua every step of the way.
  •  What’s an example of something in day to day life that you’ve shied away from because it was intimidating? 
  • What’s something God wants you to say, do, or stop, which intimidates you? (It can be a one-time thing, or a recurring way of life.) Get specific, what are the fears attached to that thing? Do those fears change God’s expectation for you?

2. Challenge

2 Corinthians 4:8-9 [NLT]  “We are pressed on every side by troubles, but we are not crushed. We are perplexed, but not driven to despair. We are hunted down, but never abandoned by God. We get knocked down, but we are not destroyed.”
Sometimes, courage needs a good dose of endurance – not every scary season is a short one. With God’s help, though, you can hang on, and accomplish great things for Him.
  •  Think back on a time in your life where it was hard to hang on spiritually. How long did it last? What most helped you to hang on? 
  •  What were some good things that came out of it? 
  •  Courage is contagious. What are some ways you could share your story of having courage and hanging on through the fear? Who in your life might benefit from your testimony?

3. Prayer Focus

Spend time in prayer calling out specific times when God was with you, whether you realized it or not at the time. Thank Him for each one, and reaffirm your trust that wherever He leads you next, and whatever He asks you to do, He will be with you.

Family with Small Children Discussion Guide

Life is a Highway: Detour

1. Power Verse

John 16:33 “I have told you all this so that you may have peace in me. Here on earth you will have many trials and sorrows. But take heart, because I have overcome the world.”
What’s up: “Trust In God!  Don’t Forget, He Has Never Failed You Yet!” This week, we conclude our series called, “Life Is A Highway”.  In this series, we learned that life is a lot like a highway.

2. Activity

On a sheet of paper, draw two dots with several inches of space between them, and label the dots Home and Store.  Ask your kids the following questions:
  • Can you draw the best way to get from Home to the Store?
  • Why is that the best way? (it’s the shortest)
  • Is the shortest way the only way?
  • Is the shortest way always the best way?  
  • What are some reasons to take a different route? 
  • Can you draw some other ways to get from Home to the Store? (help them draw some curvy lines that connect the two dots)
Sometimes we have a goal or a dream we want to accomplish in life, and the way to achieve it seems pretty obvious.  We work hard and take all the steps needed to accomplish the goal, but sometimes things happen that cause us to detour from our goal. 

3. Discussion

  • What are some things that might force us to take a detour?
  • How do we feel when we have to take a detour?
  • Does a detour mean that we’ll never accomplish the goal?
Detours in life are inevitable, but that doesn’t mean God has abandoned us.  Trusting God may seem hard, but it’s the only way to ultimately achieve our goals.  God isn’t surprised by detours! 

4. Prayer Focus

Thank God for leading you on life’s highway.  Ask Him to help you through times when you feel like you’re not accomplishing your goal.

Facing Hardships

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Adult & Teen Discussion Guide

1. Primary Statement

When grief, poverty, stress, or other hardships press down on us, the pain can overshadow our identity. The truth is, God has created each of us with a unique identity and purpose; something no season of hardship can delete.

2. Bible Verse

Genesis 17:1-5 [GNT]  “When Abram was ninety-nine years old, the Lord appeared to him and said, ‘I am the Almighty God. Obey me and always do what is right.  I will make my covenant with you and give you many descendants.’  Abram bowed down with his face touching the ground, and God said, ‘I make this covenant with you: I promise that you will be the ancestor of many nations.  Your name will no longer be Abram, but Abraham (which means, ‘father of many nations’), because I am making you the ancestor of many nations.’”


God spoke over Abram’s life and identity before his situation changed. He had a purpose for Abram’s life that infertility couldn’t overcome. It was a hardship, but it wasn’t his identity.

3. Application

Matthew 16:17-18 [ESV] 

“Jesus replied, ‘You are blessed, Simon son of John, because my Father in heaven has revealed this to you… Now I say to you that you are Peter (which means ‘rock’), and upon this rock I will build my church, and all the powers of hell will not conquer it.’”

Jesus spoke over Peter’s life and affirmed his purpose, even knowing Peter would deny him 3 times. Even a hardship of Peter’s own actions couldn’t change God’s purpose and plan.

Q. Have you ever experienced a hardship that redefined your life? Do you think that situation shipwrecked God’s purpose for your life?

Q. God saw leadership in Peter, even knowing he would falter. When you miss the mark, does it change your identity in Christ? Does it change God’s purpose for you? 

Q. Think of someone in your life who has been redefined by hardship. What would you say to them about their identity and purpose? Do you think God feels the same way about you?

4. Prayer Focus

Take a few minutes as a family and thank God for giving you an identity and purpose. Ask Him to strengthen that sense of identity through seasons of hardship and to be a help to others walking through difficult seasons.

Family with Small Children Discussion Guide

1. Power Verse

“I Will Love And Pray For My Enemies!”

Luke 6:27  “…love your enemies! Do good to those who hate you.”  

This week we continue our series “Say What?” by talking about something very important, love.   Love is easy when it comes to people we like; our friends, our family, BUT it can be quite difficult when it comes to our enemies.  Jesus commanded us to love the people who hurt us.  We need to pray for them, even when it isn’t easy!  We must learn to love our enemies!

2. Discussion

Read:  Acts 9:1-20

But Saul, still breathing threats and murder against the disciples of the Lord, went to the high priest and asked him for letters to the synagogues at Damascus, so that if he found any belonging to the Way, men or women, he might bring them bound to Jerusalem. Now as he went on his way, he approached Damascus, and suddenly a light from heaven shone around him. And falling to the ground, he heard a voice saying to him, “Saul, Saul, why are you persecuting me?” And he said, “Who are you, Lord?” And he said, “I am Jesus, whom you are persecuting.But rise and enter the city, and you will be told what you are to do.” The men who were traveling with him stood speechless, hearing the voice but seeing no one. Saul rose from the ground, and although his eyes were opened, he saw nothing. So they led him by the hand and brought him into Damascus. And for three days he was without sight, and neither ate nor drank.

10 Now there was a disciple at Damascus named Ananias. The Lord said to him in a vision, “Ananias.” And he said, “Here I am, Lord.” 11 And the Lord said to him, “Rise and go to the street called Straight, and at the house of Judas look for a man of Tarsus named Saul, for behold, he is praying, 12 and he has seen in a vision a man named Ananias come in and lay his hands on him so that he might regain his sight.” 13 But Ananias answered, “Lord, I have heard from many about this man, how much evil he has done to your saints at Jerusalem. 14 And here he has authority from the chief priests to bind all who call on your name.” 15 But the Lord said to him, “Go, for he is a chosen instrument of mine to carry my name before the Gentiles and kings and the children of Israel. 16 For I will show him how much he must suffer for the sake of my name.” 17 So Ananias departed and entered the house. And laying his hands on him he said, “Brother Saul, the Lord Jesus who appeared to you on the road by which you came has sent me so that you may regain your sight and be filled with the Holy Spirit.” 18 And immediately something like scales fell from his eyes, and he regained his sight. Then he rose and was baptized; 19 and taking food, he was strengthened.

Saul Proclaims Jesus in Synagogues

For some days he was with the disciples at Damascus. 20 And immediately he proclaimed Jesus in the synagogues, saying, “He is the Son of God.”

Q. Who was the man Jesus sent to Saul to lay hands on him?  Do you think he was scared?

Q. What if he hadn’t obeyed God and gone because he saw Saul as his “enemy”?

Q. Do you believe God changed Saul’s heart?  How does that change who he was and how other’s should see him?

God changed Saul.  He went from being an enemy to being a follower of Jesus!  Paul was no longer anyone’s enemy because Jesus had changed him and his heart.  Jesus changed us, He changed Paul, and God can change others too!

3. Application 

Identifying Our Enemies:

Q. Do you feel like you have any enemies in your life?

Q. Who are they?  (It’s okay, have courage to name the people that you struggle with. There may be people who pick on you or who hurt your feelings.)

Q. How can we love our enemies and follow God’s plan for our lives like Ananias did?  (We can pray for them, show kindness, etc.)

4. Prayer Focus

Spend time praying together as a family for the people in your lives who may be enemies.  Pray God will help you love them with Christ’s love and show compassion to them!


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Adult & Teen Discussion Guide

1. Primary Statement

Missions: The vocation or calling of a religious organization, especially a Christian one, to go out into the world and spread its faith. That is why Speed the Light exists, to make it so that missionaries around the world can go further and communicate clearer to spread the Good News of the Gospel. 

2. Bible Verse

Everyone is called to be a missionary.

Mathew 28:19 (NLT) “Therefore, go and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit.”

Luke  14:23 (ESV) “And the master said to the servant, ‘Go out to the highways and hedges and compel people to come in, that my house may be filled.”’

3. Application

God has given us a big responsibility. Are you willing to answer the call?

Isaiah 6:8 (ESV)  “And I heard the voice of the Lord saying, ‘Whom shall I send, and who will go for us?’ Then I said, ‘Here I am! Send me.’”

Q. God is asking you to go!  In what relationships that you have in your life right now, is God asking you to be a missionary and tell them about Jesus?

Q.  Now that you aware that God has called us all to be missionaries to the people around us, how will you look at normal daily interactions with people differently?


4. Prayer Focus

Take a few minutes as a family and thank God for calling you to be a missionary to those around you. Ask Him to help you see those moments that He has set up for you to share your faith. You have the answer that people are looking for. 

Family with Small Children Discussion Guide

1. Power Verse

“I Won’t Worry ‘Bout A Thing!”

Philippians 4:6  “Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything.”  

WORRY is something we all deal with!  Kids have school, sports, tests, bullies, pressures, and friendships.  All kinds of things can cause worry.  It’s important to help our children realize that worrying and fretting doesn’t solve problems.  It’s only by prayer and going to God that they can find the answers and help that they need!

2. Activity


Have everyone sit together in a circle or small group.  Tell your kids to close their eyes.  Once they have done that, lead and instruct them in taking a few (maybe ten) deep breaths to help them relax.  Then, let them open their eyes.

Q. Did that help you relax?

Q. Did you know we all have different types of stress in our lives which makes it hard for us to relax and not worry?

Q. What are some of the stresses in your life right now?  (Take some time sharing with each other)

3. Application 

Read:  Luke 10:38-42

Now as they went on their way, Jesus[a] entered a village. And a woman named Martha welcomed him into her house. 39 And she had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet and listened to his teaching. 40 But Martha was distracted with much serving. And she went up to him and said, “Lord, do you not care that my sister has left me to serve alone? Tell her then to help me.” 41 But the Lord answered her, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things,42 but one thing is necessary.[b] Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.”

Jesus told Martha she didn’t need to worry about anything but spending time with Him.  Jesus can fix everything.  He cares about every detail of our lives.  When we are stressed and worried, we can spend time with Him and relax in HIS presence.  Then, we can truly find the peace we are needing!

4. Prayer Focus

Pray and spend time as a family relaxing in God’s presence.  His presence is the only thing that can truly make our stress go away!

Count Your Blessings

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It’s late Monday night and all is quiet at the Rhodes home.  Everyone is in bed except me and it’s in these rare quiet times that I get to reflect back on the day.  Let me give you some of the information that is constantly swirling through my head in regards to Abundant Life.

  • We had 590 in church on Sunday including 100 children.
  • We are set to have the largest “Speed The Light” missions giving year of any church in the history of the Illinois district.
  • Our team going to Panama is shaping up to be the largest team I have ever taken.
  • We continue to see new families every week and more and more of them are not Caucasian.  We are tearing down racial barriers in the river bend!
  • Over the past three years we have accomplished approximately $750,000 of renovations and improvements on the two campuses and we have done all of this with cash, remaining debt free.
  • Last week we launched our small group/discipleship emphasis with about twenty different options for our congregation with groups available every day/night of the week in several different communities and a variety of times.
  • We have two rows of youth sitting front and center on Sunday morning worshipping God!
  • We have several of our staff and laity that are at various levels of completion of the Illinois School of Ministry with several taking their last courses and several who have completed all the educational requirements for ordination.
  • My staff are intelligent, hard-working, loyal people of God!
  • Our deacons are 100% behind my leadership.
  • Among our core there is a growing hunger for God and we’re praying it spreads.
  • We have great youth, children, and senior adult ministry.
  • We had a great August financially and we are ahead for the year with the summer behind us.
  • We have awesome worship, technology, and facilities.
  • I am working toward one of my long held goals of earning my doctorate.

Literally this list could go on and on.  Then why am I sitting here tonight feeling down and as if I can’t make any progress?  Why is my heart heavy and my Spirit downcast?  Simply put, because I got a single piece of news this week that was not in this same positive direction.  The news didn’t include any conflict, no one was angry, there was no staff problem or anything like that, it was just one piece in a very big puzzle.

Why then with all of these great pieces of information can I not take my eyes off the single negative piece?  I think there is something wrong with me.  In fact, I think there is something wrong with all of us.  In the midst of the favor and blessing of God we can forget all that He has and is doing for us.  Our fallen nature has an amazing ability to completely captivate our thoughts.  We literally stop seeing the forest for a single tree!  What can we do about this when it happens?  I think a man named Johnson Oatman Jr. had it right when he penned these words in 1897.

When upon life’s billows you are tempest-tossed,

When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,

Count your many blessings, name them one by one,

And it will surprise you what the Lord has done.


Count your blessings, name them one by one,

Count your blessings, see what God has done!

Count your blessings, name them one by one,

Count your many blessings, see what God has done.

Those are the words to an old Hymn entitled “Count Your Blessings”

The psalmist David said it this way…

Psalm 103:1–5 (ESV)  Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name! 2 Bless the Lord, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits, 3 who forgives all your iniquity, who heals all your diseases, 4 who redeems your life from the pit, who crowns you with steadfast love and mercy, 5 who satisfies you with good so that your youth is renewed like the eagle’s.

Already just having written these out I feel better!  Let me encourage you to do the same.  When life begins to get you down, remember all that God has done for you.  Rehearse in your mind the blessings that He has poured into your life.  You’ll find friends, family, and opportunities. I bet you’ll find a very long list.  After thinking about these take a moment and reflect on your greatest gift, your salvation.  I suggest that in no time, like me, you’ll feel better!

Well that’s enough for tonight.  It’s almost midnight and there’s more to do tomorrow!


Pastor Roy